The Best of The Cut
20+ most popular The Cut articles, as voted by our community.
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Going Gray Was the Easy Part
It was everything else happening to my aging hair that I wanted to reverse.
Surviving the Death Talk With My Kid
Finding the words to explain the unspeakable.
Love and Marriage and Menopause
My hormones turned sex with my husband into a labor of love. Emphasis on the labor part.
The Cut on Fashion
Sheryl Lee Ralph Never (But Almost) Gave Up
And now she’s Emmy nominated for Abbott Elementary. We popped in to visit the legend.
Can Fashion Designers Really Learn to Be Sustainable?
The next generation of fashion students are more eco-conscious than ever — but they still face an uphill battle.
The Cut on Happiness
Here’s Your Cheat Sheet to Happiness
The most talked-about college course in America isn’t about making money or saving the world. It’s about how to be truly happy. We took it for you.
«In psychology, this sense of not having enough time is known as “time famine.” The sense of having plenty of time is called “time affluence.”»
The Cut on Influencer Marketing
Who Would Tavi Gevinson Be Without Instagram?
Confessions from inside the algorithm.
Meet the Unfluencers
Notes on the people ruining vacations, golden lattes, and wide-leg pants everywhere.
The Cut on Lifestyle
Kim Kardashian West on Her Decade of Multi-Platform Fame
Throughout the 2010s, she demonstrably shifted American culture, changing the way we understand fame and the internet.
‘Drunk Taylor Swift’ Looks Like a Lot of Fun
She’s cutting loose!
The Cut on Love Language
Insults Are My Family’s Love Language
I love them so much. Just don’t tell them I said that.
The Cut on Motivation
‘I Have Zero Motivation to Do My Job’
Ultimately, it all comes down to who you want to be professionally.
The Cut on Parenting
What We Never Say About Parenting
It’s good, actually.
We Don’t Perform Motherhood for Our Kids
I consistently fail to achieve my fantasy of maternal grace — but you’d never know it from my Instagram.
The Cut on Quiet Quitting
So ‘Quiet Quitting’ Is Actually Just … Work?
Setting healthy boundaries shouldn’t be synonymous with quitting.
The Cut on Relationships
The Words That Ended My Marriage
My writing career took off in 2016. Nothing was the same after that.
Starting Over With a Divorce Registry
“We don’t see these things as gifts.”
The Cut on Society
The New Rules
How to text, tip, ghost, host, and generally exist with others in society today.
A Vibe Shift Is Coming
Will any of us survive it?
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How an Aspiring ‘It’ Girl Tricked New York’s Party People — and Its Banks
Somebody had to foot the bill for Anna Delvey’s fabulous new life. The city was full of marks.
How Neuroscientists Explain the Mind-Clearing Magic of Running
Research in neuroscience shows a solid link between aerobic exercise and cognitive clarity.
The Anti-Instagram App Promising to Make Us Feel Good
BeReal wants to capitalize off our desire for authenticity on social media.
My Tinder Decade
How did a dating app become my longest running relationship?
I Can’t Pass This On to My Kids
As the daughter of immigrants, I chose assimilation above all else. I want better for my children.
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