The Best Articles in Sexuality
The most useful articles and videos in Sexuality from around the web—beginners to advanced—curated by thought leaders and our community. We focus on timeless pieces and update the list whenever we discover new, must-read articles or videos—make sure to bookmark and revisit this page.
Top 5 Sexuality Articles
At a glance: these are the articles that have been most read, shared, and saved in Sexuality by Refind users in 2023.
Videos
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Ian Kerner: A sex therapist's secret to rediscovering your spark
Sex therapist Ian Kerner hears about a common problem from his patients: "failure to launch," or the inability to build and maintain sexual momentum. What's the solution? Whether you're looking to…
Kaz: Sex education should start with consent
Consent can be a tricky topic to talk about in sex education curriculums, but it doesn't have to be. In this hilarious and relatable talk, sex educator and TED Fellow Kaz offers a fresh look at…
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How to get the excitement back
Long-term sexual boredom is common but not inevitable. Use these five focused strategies to rekindle your sex life together
How to Give Her the Best Orgasm Ever
And it lies within your fingers.
Trending
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5 Natural Ways Men Can Increase Testosterone
Many factors affect testosterone levels, from sleep to diet. If you have low levels, it's possible to increase them naturally with a lifestyle tweak.
Short Articles
Short on time? Check out these useful short articles in Sexuality—all under 10 minutes.
Never past your prime! 13 peaks we reach at 40 or later
Ageing doesn’t have to mean slowing down. In fact, you’re more likely to win an ultramarathon in midlife, not to mention get happier, wiser and more body confident
This Thought-Controlled Sex Toy Lets You Masturbate With Your Mind
Brian Sloan's latest version of the Autoblow uses EEG to enter the mind of the masturbator.
The Best Date Activities for Building 'Recreational Intimacy'
Whether you're into yoga or Jenga, there's something here to deepen your bond.
Why Mindfulness May Be the Secret to Better Sex
In her new book, ‘Laid and Confused,’ Maria Yagoda explores why we’re having such bad sex—and tactics that may help change that
Why Young Men Lost Interest in Sex — Tom Greene
The New York Times reports the sexual activity of all Americans stands at a 30 year low. The number of adults age 18-24 having sex each year is even worse. About 28% report having no sex in the prior…
Long Articles
These are some of the most-read long-form articles in Sexuality.
Naked beneath Our Clothes
Nothing is new, shocking, revelatory. All the lumps and bumps, moles and birthmarks, scars and stretch marks are on display, and the need to conceal your own drops away. Nakedness, done right, has no…
«Yves Saint Laurent said, “Nudity is the most beautiful dress a woman can wear.”»
The Perils and Promises of Penis-Enlargement Surgery
One doctor’s Promethean quest to grow the male member is leaving some men desperate and disfigured.
‘People are like, Wow!’: the man trying to make condoms sexy
The long read: It has been said that condoms share marketing characteristics with napalm and funerals. But it is Ben Wilson’s mission to make us believe they are key to human happiness
Age, Sex, Location
Chatrooms taught me everything I needed to know about what real people were like before I had to grow up and become one of them.
How To Debunk Sexist Pseudoscience ❧ Current Affairs
Cordelia Fine is a psychologist and philosopher of science who has become well-known for criticizing strong claims about “innate” or “hard-wired” sex differences in the brain. Today she explains the…
Thought Leaders
We monitor hundreds of thought leaders, influencers, and newsletters in Sexuality, including:
Teen Vogue
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Cosmopolitan
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Eric Barker
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Men's Health Mag
Men's Health magazine is your ultimate guide to fitness, health, weight loss, nutrition, sex, style and guy wisdom.
Women's Health
Wellness changes everything ⚡️ #WHstrong
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