The Best Articles in Relationships

The most useful articles and videos in Relationships from around the web—beginners to advanced—curated by thought leaders and our community. We focus on timeless pieces and update the list whenever we discover new, must-read articles or videos—make sure to bookmark and revisit this page.

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Top 5 Relationships Articles

At a glance: these are the articles that have been most read, shared, and saved in Relationships by Refind users in 2023 so far.

  1. Narcissism: Where It Comes From and How to Deal With It
  2. The Problem of What Others Think
  3. How much social interaction do you actually need?
  4. What the Longest Study on Human Happiness Found Is the Key to a Good Life
  5. How To Meet Each of the 3 Sets of Needs In a Relationship


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Thought Leaders

We monitor hundreds of thought leaders, influencers, and newsletters in Relationships, including:

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Mark Manson

3x #1 NYTimes bestselling author of "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" and others. Giving life advice that doesn't suck since 2008.

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Aeon is a magazine of ideas and culture. Psyche is our sister magazine focused on the human condition. Visit and for more.

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Priya Parker

Facilitator • Author, THE ART OF GATHERING from @RiverheadBooks • Host & EP, TOGETHER APART @nytimes podcast • Mrs. @AnandWrites. Follow me on IG.

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Irene Caselli

✍️🏻The First 1,000 Days newsletter on children & carers | SoJo | Advisor @DartCenter | @newmarkjschool 21 | Feminist mama | Journo past @BBCWorld @The_Corres

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How does Refind curate?

It’s a mix of human and algorithmic curation, following a number of steps:

  1. We monitor 10k+ sources and 1k+ thought leaders on hundreds of topics—publications, blogs, news sites, newsletters, Substack, Medium, Twitter, etc.
  2. In addition, our users save links from around the web using our Save buttons and our extensions.
  3. Our algorithm processes 100k+ new links every day and uses external signals to find the most relevant ones, focusing on timeless pieces.
  4. Our community of active users gets the most relevant links every day, tailored to their interests. They provide feedback via implicit and explicit signals: open, read, listen, share, mark as read, read later, «More/less like this», etc.
  5. Our algorithm uses these internal signals to refine the selection.
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The result: lists of the best and most useful articles on hundreds of topics.

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Who are the thought leaders in Relationships?

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