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The College Student Whose Exes Are Hooking Up With Each Other
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6 min read · Jun 20th · This week’s sex diary.
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How to Win Friends and Meet Influential People
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Jun 24th · The majority of my success as a multimillionaire comes from the people that I know and the wisdom and opportunities they've granted me over the years (many w...
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SEX IS GOING OUT OF FASHION
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3 min read · Jun 22nd · With every fetish having a dedicated subreddit and every vagina a Gwyneth Paltrow candle scent, it's hard to believe sex isn't the most popular of all the cardinal sins—but by "sex" I don't mean any…
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The Cut
Help! I’m 25 and Have Never Been Kissed
The Cut
5 min read · Jun 3rd · Don’t panic. Being a late bloomer just makes you more interesting.
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Cracked.com
Petty Quirks That Become Relationship Killers Over Time
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~12 min read · Jun 21st · Things that may mean nothing today but could very well be the grounds to end your relationship tomorrow.
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6 Things I Learned Dealing with Singlehood in your 30s
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~11 min read · Jun 21st · Very rarely, we would find someone who becomes someone we like to love, date, and marry on the first try. Most first-time relationships…
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5 Unexpected Benefits Of Being Single
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2 min read · Jun 21st · Because singlehood also rocks!
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The Cut
Can I Be Chill About Dating a Poly Guy?
The Cut
3 min read · Jun 17th · Maybe, but it’s probably not worth the work for a casual relationship.
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Eric Barker
This Is How To Have Emotionally Intelligent Relationships: 4 Secrets From Research
Eric Barker
10 min read · Jun 13th · When it comes to emotionally intelligent relationships, you're probably getting in your own way. Here's how science says you can fix that...
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Psychology Today
The Value of 'No'
Psychology Today
4 min read · Jun 20th · What we can learn from rejections.
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Illusion of Transparency: Your Poker Face is Better Than You Think
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7 min read · May 28th · We tend to think that people can easily tell what we’re thinking and feeling. They can’t. Understanding the illusion of transparency bias can improve relationships, job performance, and more.
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Psychology Today
The Value of 'No'
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4 min read · Jun 20th · What we can learn from rejections.
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Farnam Street
Bias from Liking/Loving: Why We Comply With Those We Love
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9 min read · May 28th · The tendency to judge in favor of people and symbols we like is called the bias from liking or loving and it affects how we make decisions. Let's explore...
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Eric Barker
This Is How To Get People To Change: 5 Secrets From Research
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10 min read · May 30th · How do you get people to change? We usually go about it all wrong. Here's what the science says can help you persuade others...
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The Atlantic
The Six Forces That Fuel Friendship
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8 min read · Jun 10th · I’ve spent more than three years interviewing friends for “The Friendship Files.” Here’s what I’ve learned.
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The Conversation
Showing you’re stressed may make you more likeable
The Conversation
3 min read · Jun 2nd · A first-of-its-kind study investigated what’s going on in other people’s minds during your nail-biting moments.
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The Atlantic
How I Learned to Eat Alone and Not Be Lonely
The Atlantic
8 min read · Jun 12th · What I’ve learned from two years of solo dinners
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The New York Times
Opinion | I Married the Wrong Person, and I’m So Glad I Did
The New York Times
6 min read · Jun 5th · I want to normalize significant periods of confusion, exhaustion, grief and unfulfillment in marriage.
Reader View · Shared by 167, including Elizabeth Picciuto, Anne Helen Petersen, Jessica Valenti, Taylor Lorenz @ VidCon, Marie-José Kolly, Mathew Ingram
HuffPost
Diamonds Are Bullshit
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~12 min read · Jun 15th · Let's agree that diamonds are bullshit and reject their role in the marriage process. Let's admit that as a society we got tricked for about century into coveting sparkling pieces of carbon, but it's…
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It's Later Than You Think
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6 min read · Apr 20th · The harsh truth that changed my life (and may change yours)
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Farnam Street
Illusion of Transparency: Your Poker Face is Better Than You Think
Farnam Street
7 min read · May 28th · We tend to think that people can easily tell what we’re thinking and feeling. They can’t. Understanding the illusion of transparency bias can improve relationships, job performance, and more.
Reader View · Shared by 1124, including Doug Sundheim, Neil Hart 💙, Ines Bieler, davidabrock, Scott Monty, David Travis, fnord
Vox
Why community matters so much — and how to find yours
Vox
8 min read · Mar 24th · A community can serve as a social safety net, but finding one and becoming a part of it is different from simply making friends.
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5 Habits That Will Make You A Human Magnet
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1 min read · May 25th · You can learn to attract the right people
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How to stop caring what people think about you
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8 min read · From 2020 · It's not simple. But it's part of being human.
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The New York Times
Opinion | The Science of Reasoning With Unreasonable People
The New York Times
6 min read · 2021-01-31 · Don’t try to change someone else’s mind. Instead, help them find their own motivation to change.
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Aeon+Psyche
Why some of the smartest people can be so very stupid
Aeon+Psyche
5 min read · 2021-08-04 · Struggling to understand is perfectly honourable. Being wilfully stupid is something else and we should strive to fix it
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MIT Technology Review
First Evidence That Online Dating Is Changing the Nature of Society
MIT Technology Review
8 min read · From 2017 · Dating websites have changed the way couples meet. Now evidence is emerging that this change is influencing levels of interracial marriage and even the stability of marriage itself.
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Quartz
Every successful relationship is successful for the same exact reasons
Quartz
20+ min read · From 2017 · I asked 1,500 people for relationship advice, and kept getting the same answers.
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