The Best Articles in Parenting
The most useful articles in Parenting from around the web—beginners to advanced—curated by thought leaders and our community. We focus on timeless pieces and update the list whenever we discover new, must-read articles or videos—make sure to bookmark and revisit this page.
Top 5 Parenting Articles
At a glance: these are the articles that have been most read, shared, and saved in Parenting by Refind users in 2023 so far.
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How to get your kid to do stuff without having to constantly remind them
If you feel like you’re nagging them, it’s a sign your current system isn’t working.
How to raise emotionally intelligent kids
We need to teach children about the importance of connection, heart and compassionate listening and put these things at the center of all our relationships, says author, educator and consultant Lae…
«it’s easy to blame our parents for what they did or didn’t do. But the real issue is the lack of emotional literacy in our culture. We don’t teach parents how to respond to children’s feelings and emotions with empathy and compassion. We also don’t teach it in our kindergartens; we don’t teach it in our schools. We still value IQ far more than we value EQ.»
How to help young kids: Give their parents cash
Guaranteed income programs are spreading, and proving particularly vital for low-income families with young children.
How to Actually Enjoy a Weekend With Your Kids
Because kids are a joy and a blessing and can truly mess up a weekend.
How to Make Better Joint Decisions With Your Partner
Decisions can be tough to make as a team. This is how to sidestep the most common — and frustrating — parts of the process and come together as a unit.
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How I Learned to Be ‘Good With Kids’
An Editor of a Magazine by and for Children on What Their Work Has Taught Her About Parenting and Life.
So Your Kid Wants to Be a Twitch Streamer
Don’t panic. Instead, teach your beloved offspring to answer the Three Questions of Streaming.
In the U.S., a weak support system erodes Asian traditions of intergenerational caregiving
The clashing of cultural norms with American systems is especially clear to Asian-American and Pacific Islander women — the most likely group to be caring for elderly parents in the United States.
Unclutter My Heart: The Impossible Task Of Getting Rid Of My Kids' Stuff
The mother of an autistic child reflects on how hard it is to get rid of the toys, clothes, and other items that reflect the hard-won milestones her son reached.
The Parenting Prophecy
The way someone was raised often shows up in the way they raise their own kids—for better or worse.
Short Articles
Short on time? Check out these useful short articles in Parenting—all under 10 minutes.
Shoes aren't for licking
Parenting advice from the 1960's still reigns
24 Family Mottos That You Should Consider Adopting
Family mottos are mission statements, things you say to keep your family on course. Here are 23 family mottors that serve families well.
«Life should be more than work, more than school, so you have to find those happy moments and grab onto them. But sometimes you have to make them yourself, too. Laugh more and be present.»
Why I Plan to Parent Like a Norwegian
Want to raise kids who love the outdoors and aren’t afraid of a challenge? Try a little friluftsliv.
Want to Raise Kind, Generous Kids? Take Them to an Art Museum
New research shows seeing great art can inspire kids to be nicer and more generous.
What Do You Call It When A Millennial Has A Kid?
What is Generation Alpha? Understanding Generation Alpha, the "digital natives" who will soon outnumber Baby Boomers.
Long Articles
These are some of the most-read long-form articles in Parenting.
15 Questions That Will Make You A Better Parent (and Person)
As parents, we worry about having all the right answers. But I think it’s better to focus on asking the right questions. The right question at the right time can change the course of a life, can still…
«All time with your kids—all time with anyone you love—is created equal.»
The Tyranny of Science Over Mothers
How parenting became "optimized" and made mothers miserable.
How infant temperament extends its reach into young adulthood
Confident or shy, our temperament is mostly baked-in from birth. But how that influences our lives is up for grabs
How can you be the best possible parent, lover, friend, citizen or tourist? Here’s what the experts…
It’s not easy being a ‘good’ person – what can we learn from the people who have thought about it the most?
Have toys got too brainy? How playthings became teaching aids for the very young
The long read: For decades we have been using toys to cram learning into playtime – and toys have increasingly been marketed as helping to turn children into prosperous, high-achieving adults. But it…
Thought Leaders
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Fräulein Tessa
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Mama Poule
Chez Mama Poule - der brandneue Elternblog von @ellengirod. Sei dabei, von Anfang an!

AfroMum
We are the leading online community for African women focusing on technology, parenting, career and lifestyle
United Nations
Official account of the United Nations. For peace, dignity & equality on a healthy planet.

PBS Parents
Parenting tips and articles, learning activities, family-friendly recipes, cool crafts and more!
Publications
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Fatherly
Empowering men to raise great kids and lead more fulfilling adult lives.
Ryan Holiday
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PsyPost.org
Reporting research on human behavior and cognition, including #Psychology #Neuroscience #PoliSci #Sociology and #Psychiatry
The School of Life
Ideas to help you learn, heal and grow. Subscribe here: http://theschooloflife.com/app/
Outside
A run, hike, ride, or meditation can change everything. Live Bravely! IG: @outsidemagazine Newsletters: http://outsideonline.com/newsletters Cover photo: Mark Fleming
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