8 Best Articles on Self Control
The most useful articles on self-control from around the web—beginners to advanced—curated by thought leaders and our community. We focus on timeless pieces and update the list whenever we discover new, must-read articles or videos—make sure to bookmark and revisit this page.
Top 5 Self Control Articles
At a glance: these are the articles that have been most read, shared, and saved on self-control by Refind users in 2023 so far.
Short Articles
Short on time? Check out these useful short articles on self-control—all under 10 minutes.
Wish you had more self-control? You should hear the downsides
Many people wish they had the advantages of more self-control. But fewer know that the trait can be costly, too
«heightened expectations for the high self-control person, leading them to feel more burdened by the reliance that others have on them»
The 90-Second Rule that Builds Self-Control
The key to greater happiness and peace of mind
«President John F. Kennedy, I might suggest that you “Ask not what your life can do for you; ask what you can do for your life.” It’s a matter of flipping your perspective»
Take Ownership of Your Future Self
Change is inevitable — but it’s not out of your control.
Don’t Worry, You Can’t Deplete Your Willpower
Self-control is all in your head
The Dark Side of Self-Control
Resisting short-term temptations can lead to long-term regret.
Long Articles
These are some of the most-read long-form articles on self-control.
The myth of self-control
Psychologists say using willpower to achieve goals is overhyped. Here’s what actually works.
My Appetites
Jerry Saltz on eating and coping mechanisms, childhood and self-control, criticism, love, cancer and pandemics.
Self-Control Is Just Empathy With Your Future Self
The same part of the brain that allows us to step into the shoes of others also helps us restrain ourselves.
Publications
We monitor hundreds of publications, blogs, newsletters, and news sources in Self Control, including:
Aeon+Psyche
Aeon is a magazine of ideas and culture. Psyche is our sister magazine focused on the human condition. Visit http://aeon.co and http://psyche.co for more.
Longreads
Sharing and publishing the best longform stories since 2009. An @automattic publication and the sister site of @Atavist. @longreads@mastodon.world
Psychology Today
Insight about everybody's favorite subject: Ourselves.
Harvard Business Review
The best ideas in business and management to help people, organizations, and economies work better.
Vulture
Devouring culture. Get Vulture's daily newsletter: http://nym.ag/39gtEv0
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