The Best of Bustle
10+ most popular Bustle articles, as voted by our community.
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Your Coworker Is Impossible. Does It Help To Know They’re A Virgo?
Star signs have become fodder for office conflict and team-building exercises. Can the Zodiac survive such mundanity?
Bustle on Business
Medication Abortion Is Under Attack. This Provider Is Playing The Long Game.
The CEO of Hey Jane, Kiki Freedman, talks to Bustle about her abortion telemedicine website and the latest Texas lawsuit.
Bustle on Mental Health
What We Keep Getting Wrong About Burnout
A term suggesting rock bottom stops meaning rock bottom when when we're all there and, somehow, still going. Is our definition of burnout all wrong?
«But it’s hard to address a problem in any real, lasting way if you’re playing whack-a-mole with symptoms.»
Bustle on Nutrition
Why Wouldn't Your Nutritionist Have An Eating Disorder?
The people we pay to tell us how to eat often struggle to feed themselves.
Bustle on Relationships
Is Therapy-Speak Making Us Selfish?
Boundaries are important. But our relationships require a touch more compassion than some online blueprints offer.
«Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make — and Keep — Friends»
What Even Is A Red Flag Anymore?
Separate the relationship dealbreakers from the meme-worthy red flags and the quirks you can live with.
«For what it’s worth, Worthington says this is the best way to address a potential red flag: directly and kindly.) “I was like, What’s the deal with this, what’s going on in here?”»
Bustle on Self Care
Why Self-Care Hasn't Cured Your Burnout
The cure for burnout isn't endless leisure — it's finding meaningful work, beyond your career.
«When I try to stuff “leisure” into the space where all of that work went, I tend to discover new forms of malaise and dissatisfaction»
Is Self-Care Making Us Lonely?
Welcome to the IDGAF era, where personal needs and alone time reign supreme, and tweets about ghosting people to care for yourself go viral.
«distancing yourself from those who don’t value your time and energy is self care.»
Bustle on Wework
Her Search For Enlightenment Fueled WeWork's Collapse
When Rebekah Paltrow showed up at Dechen Thurman’s 8 a.m. meditation class for the first time, Thurman saw someone a lot like himself. Her last name advertised shared lineage with an ultrafamous…
Bustle on Yoga
The 10 Best Yoga Poses For Clearing Brain Fog
Yoga teachers share the best yoga poses for combatting brain fog.
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7 Benefits Of Going On A "Dopamine Detox"
What exactly is a dopamine detox? Experts weigh in on the benefits of the mindfulness practice that TikTokers love.
«A “dopamine fast” can also come in handy if you no longer enjoy the quieter, slower moments in life, thanks to all the over-stimulation»
The Secret To Pursuing A Goal Without Getting Burnt Out
Work-life balance *is* possible: Here, experts give tips for how to pursue a goal without it taking over your entire life or causing burnout.
12 Eye-Opening Documentaries Streaming Now That Will Make You See The World Differently
Since America has the most advanced health care system in the world — or so we have been told — we expect that the drugs and devices we put into our bodies go through rigorous testing and only end up…
This Excerpt From Stacey Abrams' New Novel Will Make Your Heart Race
In this exclusive excerpt from the highly-anticipated novel, two undercover agents are forced to confront their feelings for one another.
"The Whisper Method" Is The Ultimate Manifestation Technique For Instant Gratification
On TikTok, the latest manifestation technique going viral is the "whisper method" which relies on visualization and self reflection.
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