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Kids Are Master Manipulators. So Use Game Theory Against Them

WIRED
Paywall possible
8 min
From 2016

Kids are master manipulators. They play up their charms, pit adults against one another, and engage in loud, public wailing. So it’s your job to keep up with them, Carnegie Mellon’s Kevin Zollman says. His new book, The Game Theorist’s Guide to Parenting—written with journalist Paul Raeburn—explains how. Force Cooperation For siblings who refuse to…

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